Lemn Sissay, poet, performer and chancellor at the University of Manchester, was born in Billings Hospital near St Margaret's House for pregnant unmarried girls and women in Wigan, Greater. A school report calling the boy "a ray of sunshine" is probed for racist overtones, and happily exonerated. Growing up, the moment someone found out I was care-experienced, theyd make negative assumptions, says Lucy Reynolds, who had moved in and out of care eight times before being adopted aged seven. I appreciate it.. Birthdays, Christmas, weekends, holidays I have to be the best family that I can be, to myself. Mrs Greenwood does not think of the boy as a foster child. Lemn Sissay MBE is a British author and broadcaster. He describes a happy childhood, a mischievous nature, and warmth between siblings. Sissay was the official poet of the 2012 London Olympics, has been chancellor of the University of Manchester since 2015, and joined the Foundling Museum 's board of trustees two years later, having previously been appointed one of the museum's fellows. Lemn Sissay, one of our best-loved poets, was fostered as a baby. We need to prioritise the voices of people with lived experience of care, she says. My experience has taught me the importance of having kind, supportive adults in the lives of children in care to help them feel safe, cared for and treated like one of the family, she says. Paperback. Marcus Clarke with his new carer on the day he entered NCH Sheringham. Sarah looked pretty as a picture in her blue floral dress. One is piteous, the other heroic. My Name Is Why: Quick Reads 2022: Amazon.co.uk: Sissay, Lemn: 9781838854645: Books Skip to main content .co.uk Hello Select your address Johanan Walker, aged 13, with her one-year-old daughter, during their time in care in Hackney. To mark National Poetry Day this month, poet and author Lemn Sissay muses on a country childhood of mixed blessings - and why this year he is more hopeful than ever. Other weird things started to happen. He was British and Ethiopian. James McMahon 'I was so proud to be the official poet of the 2012 Olympic Games': Lemn Sissay. Mum and Dad said I was like Macavity. Lucy Sheen, whose Chinese name is Chau Lai-Tuen, aged one in the home of her adoptive parents. She was taken into a mother and baby unit as a 12-year-old mum, and had to fight to keep her daughter. I loved life. The motivation, he says, comes from being 11 years old, losing my dad, going into a childrens home [Skircoat Lodge in Halifax], being really badly physically abused, ending up homeless, but then going back into the care sector and seeing that nothing had changed.. My brother Christopher is a year younger than me and I really loved him when I was a kid. The Fostering Network is the UKs leading fostering charity; it champions fostering and seeks to create vital change. My care experience was lifesaving, says Antiques Roadshow expert Ronnie Archer-Morgan, who recently published a memoir called Would It Surprise You to Know?. Wherever I lived, my care experience included libraries and reading, and without them I wouldnt be here, says Rosie Canning, who was put into care in London at six weeks. The care-experienced movement is shaping some of the thinking that people in care are talented and have so much potential. Im always moving on to the next thing and thinking somethings going to go wrong., Artistic director, 20 Stories High theatre company. I loved my family. Sissay spent 18 years as a child of the state. A year later, the local authority released his birth certificate revealing the name his birth mother had given him, Lemn Sissay, and the letter requesting her sons return. Akabusi joined the British army aged 16 and later embarked on a glittering athletics career as a sprinter and hurdler. Raising a joyous toast to the forgotten and the forgettable, Sissay recognizes the power we give to what we pay attention to and invites us to look anew at all that has been undervalued. I have a very happy childhood memory of being in Scotland on holiday when I was about four. One thing many share is dark memories of the shame and stigma they suffered. Wallwein later dramatised her search for her birth mother in the acclaimed one-woman show (later a book) Glue. It was about having support and confidence, and knowing what is possible, she says, I didnt even know what an artist was.. I was causing problems for everyone. Norman Greenwood was given his birth certificate. They told me they were my parents forever. The clamour of questions is almost deafening at Londons Foundling Museum one sunny July morning, when 59 people who, for many different reasons, spent all or part of their childhoods in care, gather for a historic photocall. His own inspiration in poetry has come from ColeridgesRime of the Ancient Mariner. It maybe shapes certain aspects of your character and your attitude to life, says Tom Riordan of the experience of being in care. Natalie Hirst, right, with a girl she met while visiting her grandmother at her caravan site. Social services placed the baby Lemn into long-term foster care, advising the foster family to treat this as adoption. Macavity was such a contrast to my blond, blue-eyed brother Christopher. It is not sunny, but Lemn Sissay is sheltering behind dark shades, hunched over as he inhales cigarettes to feed his near-40-year habit. Lemn Sissay as a child, with his foster family He tells me what happened when he met his mother a decade ago. SOS #Dare2Care Gwynedd Council is calling for more care workers in Gwynedd. LEMN SISSAY MBE is a BAFTA nominated International prize winning writer. The Greenwoods were strict Baptists and their foster child's high spirits appeared to wear them down. His affectionate nickname was Bunty. Born in Wigan to an Ethiopian mother, Lemn Sissay was placed in foster care as a baby, and sent aged 12 to the first of a series of childrens homes. On the back another poem is handwritten, composed on the train into London this morning, fresh on the page. This was the beginning of the end of open arms and warm hugs. The documents armed Sissay with the necessary proof that "the government had stolen my childhood.". There were times when Dad was charged with punishing me in the front room with the cane. His mother refused to sign the adoption papers. Becoming a young parent motivated her to return to education as an adult. We look at reclaiming the adoption narrative and reframing the worlds view on adoption, and also helping adult adoptees heal from their trauma.. Its never really been something that had a lasting effect on me., CEO of Adoptee Futures and critical adoption studies researcher, I was fostered till the age of one and then placed with my adoptive family, says Annalisa Toccara. Night cant drive out nightOnly the light aboveFear cant drive out fearOnly love. He said he now tries to put all his energy into projects that help children in care. Sometimes, if youve had my childhood, you try not to be defined by it, he says. He then secured himself a flat on Poets Corner, a housing estate near Wigan. are! The car filled with quiet loss. Lemn Sissay said it was "a wonderful thing to be recognised as somebody who has got my kind of past" Poet Lemn Sissay has dedicated his OBE to his younger self who he said overcame a. Postscript: After Woodfields, Lemn Sissay was sent to two more childrens homes. For ever, for ages, until the end came, no matter how volatile the day had been, Id pray shed open the bedroom door before I slept, Id pray shed sit on the edge of my bed and sing me to sleep as she did when I was younger. It made me aware that families all look different and thats absolutely fine., Carl Parsons was adopted at five weeks. I was a deceitful one. I found my birth father very quickly, because he was an actor, Louis Mahoney, who was a big activist for Black, Asian and ethnic minority rights in the actors union Equity, she says. He was brought up by foster parents as Norman Greenwood and was put into the first of four children's homes in Greater Manchester in 1979. He reflected how he had since forgiven his foster parents, saying they did the best they could and he had also received apologies from Wigan Council. This was the beginning of not being touched. I sat at the table and my mum looked at me intensely. Over the next few weeks the childrens home filled up with mainly teenagers. It was a difficult situation, he says. I had nothing to put in the locker by my bed. Interspersing readings from his new collection Gold from the Stone with moving and raw recollections of his childhood, Lemn transfixed the audience. We sweated until one of us, invariably Christopher, would burst into tears. I loved life: Lemn Sissay with friends in the days when he believed his name was Norman. He is in two minds about searching for his birth parents. I loved him. He followed his dad into the antiques trade. This was the beginning of empty Christmas time and hollow birthdays. Wallwein, who received an MBE in 2018 for services to spoken word poetry, had been in 13 homes before writing her first play at 17. It was a taxing legal process that ended three years later, in 2015, with an out-of-court settlement. His mother, on arriving in the UK, asked for him to be temporarily fostered as she needed to study; she would not sign papers allowing him to be adopted. I carried a lot of anger for many years and then I realised that the anger is one of the things that kills people. Ive had experiences with homelessness, she says, and its something that disproportionately affects people who are leaving foster care. He is also the editor of The Fire People: A Collection of Contemporary Black British Poets (1998), and his work has appeared in many anthologies. I was mostly well looked after, he says, and learned to be happy in my own company., Ive become somebody to whom family and community is incredibly important, says opera singer Jack Holton, who was born in Kent to a single mother with health issues and fostered at an early age. Mr Sissay with his godmother Ethiopia Alfred (Jonathan Brady/PA) After being reunited with his birth mother aged 18,. I learned a lot about life, about loyalty, about being non-judgmental. It's the first time in many years . Being adopted is definitely something that puts a mark on you, says fashion and portrait photographer Philip Sinden. None of it. I had no idea what he meant. My body will skip around the table like a sprite on the solid stone floor. I studied the question for a day and a night, I prayed to God, and I read the Bible to see if a passage would answer the question. He has authored collections of poetry and plays. I looked at their faces to see if I had said the right thing. I was excited because the family meeting was just me and Mum and Dad. I just felt this overwhelming relief when I found out the truth, he says, because I was always told, they didnt want you. For Fretwell, writing and making films is a way of dealing with both his care experience and the racism he suffered growing up in Bognor Regis. I lost everybody. But its a bit of a B-movie of an existence. I was born in the era of forcible adoption my mother was coerced into giving me up, says Louise Wallwein. During this time, no care worker knew him for beyond a year and meanwhile he had lost his parents, his siblings and other family, his friends, his first girlfriend, his town and his identity. Riddell wrote a memoir called The Cornflake Kid. August 4, 2020. Often, I would. It was followed bySome Things I Like, which he said he had recounted to a girlfriend after she had asked him to tell her something about himself. Its listening to care-experienced young people Ive been working with that has empowered me to talk openly about it., Donna Ludford applied to become lord mayor of the City of Manchester to raise aspirations for young people in the care system. Poet Lemn Sissay says he felt obliged to accept his OBE because the award honours his younger self who overcame a "dehumanising" time in care. I had no idea Mum thought it was my fault. I just felt I had to hide it, says Sophie Willan, creator and star of Almas Not Normal, of her experience in care she spent much of her childhood in foster care in Bolton. Now, as he approaches his 55th birthday, he's added another: children's writer. I wanted to tackle the sometimes subconscious, but overall still damaging stereotypes often perpetuated in the media, such as care-experienced people not achieving or succeeding in life due to their background. They were my parents and I loved them unconditionally. I remember the smell of wet heather, bracken and fern. You felt like you had to grow up too fast., The issues around growing up in care dont magically stop at 25, just because public policy stops, says Jim Goddard, who went into care in Liverpool aged three. And in the Baptist faith a sinner must ask forgiveness for his sins. The answer was often because we are sinners. I stumbled across hazelnuts on a recent walk on Dentdale in Cumbria for a TV documentary. I loved my town. He was taken into long-term foster care in Wigan and named Norman Greenwood. Ive put a great amount of my own time back into trying to improve things for other people., It destroys you as a person, the amount of anxiety you develop from always expecting something to go wrong in your life, says Tarell Mcintosh, who became homeless after two local authorities in south London failed to properly care for him. I loved the Market, the Flower Park, the Big Park, the books. He has been made an Honorary Doctor by the universities of Manchester, Kent, Huddersfield and Brunel. Jenny Bagchi spent time in foster care and unregulated settings as a teenager before experiencing an abrupt end to care at 16. Lemn Sissay is the author of five poetry collections: Tender Fingers in a Clenched Fist (1988); Rebel Without Applause (1992); Morning Breaks in the Elevator (1999):The Emperor's Watchmaker (2000), and Listener (2008). His zodiac sign is Gemini. Moving unexpectedly from subject to subject, he thanked the girls for producing such wonderful flags devoted to his poetry which he had seen on the English corridor and said had truly moved him. These are social graces that help us to move on.. Mum and Dad must have told everyone in my family to stay away from me. Even this Great Hall, he reminded the audience, had been imagined by an architect before it had been built. This is Lemn's story, a story of neglect and determination . His mother, a young Ethiopian studying in England, had refused to give him up for adoption when he was born in 1967. And this is what I found. I was a very challenging and complex young person. His memoir about that time, Fifty-One Moves, is now taught at universities and Ashcroft is a founding member of the campaign group Every Child Leaving Care Matters. My mother had schizophrenia, I had a stepfather who was very violent to my mother and to me. The project is the brainchild of poet and activist Lemn Sissay, himself a graduate of the system, who wanted to create an image of successful lives as an inspiration for the many thousands of children struggling in care today. Available in used condition with free delivery in the UK. They include Olympic medallist Kriss Akabusi; novelist Jeanette Winterson; the comedian and Observer columnist Stewart Lee, and the Turner prize-nominated photographer and film-maker Zarina Bhimji. It was amazing to find him and realise where I get my activism from., Social work leader, campaigner and charity trustee. Sissay has spoken out about his care experience and its many traumas throughout his career as a poet and broadcaster. I dont feel like its for me to make a story out of their sacrifices and goodwill., Director of access and participation, Rada, and co-director of We Are Bridge, Its so important to celebrate the successes, says Axa Hynes of the photoshoot at the Foundling Museum, but because there were so many hurdles it can also feel uncomfortable, a distraction from the deep, systemic societal change that has to happen. Hynes went into care aged 10, fostered by a family friend who had already been giving her family emotional and practical support. But the responsibility is too great for a child and so he finds himself manipulated and blamed for what he exposes by the simple virtue of innocence. I forgave her to her face. 31 December 1979: Message left after Christmas saying that the Greenwoods wanted Norman removed without further notice. Social workers report, 31 December 1979: Spoke to foster parents on telephone. Lemn Sissay's poem "Some Things I Like" celebrates what we might consider discardable like cold tea, ash trays, and even people. He tapped the indicator and pulled quietly into a lay-by and turned the engine off. My grandad and foster parents and I used to go down to the bay to get salmon, trout and mussels. Like "A foster child will expose the cracks in the familial veneer. Lemn Sissay is a poet, author and broadcaster who was the official poet of the London Olympics in 2012. Poet Lemn Sissay, who said he was abused at Wood End as a child, returned there for a 1995 documentary . Its been fine., Greg Bramble counts himself lucky that he and his brother Richard, also featured, had a stable experience with a foster family in Warwickshire, but leaving his birth family aged 10 was traumatic, and negotiating their new family life was often fraught. I wanted to be in care to get out of that situation. His experience in childrens homes and foster families between Surrey and Lancashire was excellent. LEMN SISSAY. His love will shine through me and them. I know from reading the very brief information I have on my birth parents that my natural mother wanted me to have a better life than she could give me, he says. Raise me with sunshineBathe me in lightWash all the shadowsThat fell from the night, 11 December 1974: There are no problems with Norman. Its difficult to build a relationship with a mother. Lemn Sissay, My Name Is Why. Audio CD. He was British and Ethiopian. At the age of 17, after a childhood in a foster family followed by six years in care homes, Norman Greenwood was given his Birth Certificate. Though it was clear she loved and cared for us, my foster mum used to beat us with a cane. Insomuch as the foster child is a cipher to the dysfunction of a family and also a seer. Poet Lemn Sissay, with the help of Londons Foundling Museum, has gathered 59 athletes, artists, CEOs and others who, like him, spent part of their childhoods in care. Pete Turner was adopted at five months and grew up in Bury in a very liberal family that loved me, he says. Lemn means 'why' in Amharic, the official language of Ethiopia, where celebrated poet Lemn Sissay's mother was from. 0 likes. Music producer/writer; founder of clothing labels Duffer of St George and Sharpeye; author; one of the two creators of the rare groove scene; photographer; activist. They were an aspirational middle-class family from Lancashire. He left school at 15 with one GCSE and two CSEs. "I spend all day in bed today," he once wrote plaintively on his blog. At the time, I looked exactly like my father and was the same age as he was when I was conceived. A poem by Lemn Sissay. It must be true. Theyre part of a poem-a-day project by their author Paul Cookson, who was born in the north of England and adopted shortly afterwards by a family in Essex. His Landmark poems are visible in London, Manchester, Huddersfield and. The memoir was warmly received, though Jenkins, who edits Observer Food Monthly, has mixed feelings about becoming a figurehead for care-experienced people. Composite: All images courtesy of contributors, Every one of us has a different story: a historic portrait of care system success, once was Christopher Goldsmith, reads a poem, neatly typed out on one side of a piece of A4 paper. Something pinched her features. All my personal belongings went in the locker by the bed. In 2017 he launched the Lemn Sissay. But I will ask God for forgiveness and learn to love you. This was the perfect answer. Yemarshet Sissay came to England from her homeland, in 1966, planning to become a teacher so she could bring her new found skills back with her to Ethiopia to teach in schools there. 4.15. Lemn Sissay was stolen by the state. It was Lemn Sissay. Spectacularly ordinary, is how poet Paul Cookson describes his very happy childhood in Lancashire alongside three other siblings, all of them adopted. Answering questions, he said he is still angry but now it is more defined and he does not maintain the same anger of his youth. Its taken a lot of years to reflect back to my foster parents what they did to me. Photo-Greenbelt Over the weekend, black British author, poet and playwright Lemn Sissay did his nation and the black community proud by picking up the very prestigious 2019 Pen. Not even a Bible. Went on to talk about another placement for Norman without any consideration of how the boy might feel. Youre on your guard. Born in London, Henry was privately fostered at six months by a wonderful couple in Weston-super-Mare who encouraged her dreams of becoming an actor shes currently starring in Mad House in the West End. He recalled his days growing up in Leigh, near Atherton where he was the only black in the village and his time walking the streets of Daubhill selling cleaning products door to door. Visiting my mum in hospital, Id see people screaming in straitjackets. The upside of his experience, he says, was that he had no fear from a very young age, and he connects this to his career successes DJing at Londons Wag Club in the 1980s, starting the clothing label Duffer of St George. Although its going to take time to shift the stigma and change the system, I believe it will happen.. Today, we are as close as she can allow herself to be. They were just friends, says Cato, now an expert on Antiques Roadshow. What kept us stable is that we knew we had two mums and dads.. Sissay reflects on his childhood, self-expression and Britishness, and in doing so explores the institutional care system, race, family and the meaning of home. Most children in care have someone they can call family. In care from 11 to 17, Ben Ashcroft moved 51 times between foster parents, residential care, secure units, secure training centre, and finally a young offenders unit. Many of us who stood at the Foundling Museum have had to battle our way through systemic failures and discrimination. Theyre part of a poem-a-day project by their author Paul Cookson, who was born in the north of England and adopted shortly afterwards by a family in Essex. Johanan Walker enthusiastically nods. Thank you. The theology was perfect, the timing unquestionable and the answer as honest as a sinner could get. I started thinking all over again. Lemn Sissay was born in the village of Billinge, near Wigan, in 1967 to an Ethiopian mother. We had the same rivalry most brothers have. When Stallone heard Riddells tale of growing up in Aberdeen childrens homes in the early 80s, he urged him to share his story more widely. Lucy Sheen was one of 106 Hong Kong Chinese foundlings who were adopted by white British families in the 1950s and 60s. I felt important. Thus, Sissay began his life as "Norman Mark Greenwood . I still think love is the most important thing. She wanted her child to be fostered while she studied. She is now employed by the NHS in Greater Manchester, leading a programme to create trauma responsive communities and organisations and to improve health outcomes and opportunities across the region. You just get used to battling with everybody all the time, and you always have your guard up. show more Product details Format Hardback | 208 pages Dimensions 162 x 220 x 25mm | 422g She is now a psychodynamic psychotherapist and the director of two companies. Being in foster care is probably the primary reason why I had a diagnosis of borderline personality disorder, says Derek Owusu, whose award-winning debut novel, That Reminds Me, explores the after-effects of a childhood in care. Im not sure what I think of this, he says, anxiously, before concluding that, if Lemn did it, it must be OK. My name, my brother . Id never thought of myself as a different person., Principal and artistic director of Bird College, Sidcup. I am mightily proud of being care-experienced as its made me who I am today. He has authored collections of poetry and plays. The University of Manchester Chancellor, poet and playwright, Lemn Sissay, has received his OBE for services to Literature and Charity from HRH Price Charles.Since taking up the Chancellorship in 2015, Lemn Sissay MBE has contributed to the University significantly on a local, national and international scale. The back another poem is handwritten, composed on the train into London morning! 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